Coming Alive

Inspiring others to use their voice to change the World

09 Jul 2011

We can be a ONE mom!

We can be a ONE mom!

               

           Understanding advocacy and how giving your voice makes a difference takes explanation.  People are accustomed to helping by giving money or giving their time; whether it is helping to prepare meals, make care kits, or building schools.  Being a ONE member does not require any money, and takes only a small amount of time.  Because of this people often wonder how they are really helping.  How does signing a petition help children dying every day from preventable illnesses in the developing world?  That is what my family and I were able to answer while at the U2 concert in Miami and what I share with my congressional district as a CDL daily.

            Our voice does have value and hearing the support for GAVI (Global Alliance for Vaccine and Immunizations) at the June 13th replenishment conference is “Living Proof” that we can make a difference by signing petitions, making phone calls, writing/faxing letters, and sending tweets.  (http://www.one.org/blog/2011/06/22/heartfelt-thanks-from-gavis-ceo-helen-evans/)  In simple terms, there is power in numbers.  We have over 2 million ONE members worldwide with over 36,000 of those in my home state in NC.  These numbers have an impact when shared during a congressional meeting.  When a letter is written by a ONE member it reminds our elected officials that we are part of an organization that educates its members as well as monitors programs it is advocating for, the governments pledging support, and the governments receiving aid.  Personally I have always appreciated the bipartisan support and the honesty that ending extreme poverty will not happen overnight, the programs are not perfect, but that progress is being made.  ONE is not an angry campaign.  Just as we practice in our house, it is most effective to have “an attitude of gratitude”!

            From my experience the Members of Congress understand the importance of supporting the programs working to eliminate extreme poverty and end deaths from preventable disease.  They want to know if their constituents care about these programs too.  This is how ONE is effective.  While ONE volunteer leaders like myself are building relationships with our Members of Congress we are at the same time educating our communities on the issues of extreme poverty.  We create an awareness of the programs that have proven to be effective and how by adding their voice we can ensure that these programs continue to save lives and build stronger, healthier communities in the developing world.  It is exciting stuff!

            While at the U2 concert in Miami, we explained that ONE is not a charity and does not want money, just their voice and by adding their name to the vaccine petition they can be a part of saving 4 million lives by 2015. Once they heard this they were in! I love being a ONE member.  It is simple, empowering, and feels good to know that we do not have to be a celebrity, a millionaire, or a rock star to help make poverty history.  We can be a ONE mom (or someone who loves a ONE mom)!

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03 Jul 2011
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What can I bring to the table?

What can I bring to the table?

            Well I have to say that “coming alive” and believing that we are more powerful beyond measure is not that easy!  Overcoming fears, stepping outside of our comfort zone, and embracing our life as it presents itself can be hard work.  I know that I am not alone, because I have had many conversations with moms just like me.  Moms who were ambitious with ideas to change the world until they discovered their way of changing the world was by tucking those ambitions away for 15 years to raise their children.    

            When I was invited to join the ONE Moms Advisory Council I was first dumbstruck and then completely overwhelmed.  After so many years out of the professional world would I be able to handle this.  This was a group of established social media moms and I was just learning facebook.  There is a quote by Randy Pausch, “Be good at something; it makes you valuable…have something to bring to the table, because that will make you more welcome.”  I was at a point where I felt like being a mom was all that I had to bring to the table. 

Becoming a ONE CDL changed that for me.  I understood clearly that this was a volunteer position, and that made it safe for me. This was an opportunity for me to explore something that I had always dreamed of learning. Nursing was not my passion, but I always felt obligated to my degree. My first Regional Field Director, Lauren Conn and my current RFD, Sara Donaldson have given me the encouragement and the tools needed to re-discover the ambitions that I had tucked away so many years ago.  I am not sure they are aware of the gift they have given me!

Today as I learned how to place the “I am going to Kenya” badge on my blog I had another moment when I realized that this is all really happening.  I had a ONE meet-up with my ONE Wilmington members this morning and I found myself making rounds around the coffee shop from all of the patrons wanting to learn more about ONE.  I am a ONE advocate.  It comes natural.  It makes me valuable.  It is what I can bring to the table.

I invite you now to click on the “I am going to Kenya “tab and follow me along on the trip!  My post will begin sharing this experience from getting a passport, vaccinations, and our family working the Miami U2 concert in between.  I will discuss the books I am reading to prepare myself as well as continue to share how I am growing personally.  Through this I hope that others will become involved ONE members, who learn the issues and see how empowering it is to take action.  Thank you for being a part of the journey!
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27 Jun 2011

Creating Space

“Half of the confusion in the world comes from not knowing how little we need.”
-Admiral Richard E. Byrd

        If I am to keep to my weekend motto, then this blog post must be “simple”.  The above quote has been sitting on our table for many years and was our inspiration for the weekend.  Preparing for Africa has not only inspired mental clearing, but physical clearing as well.  This weekend the kids and I did mega house and garage de-cluttering.  I have created the space needed to immerse myself in Africa.

Now I feel free to dive into our reading list!  I am a non-fiction junkie, so plan to start with Emerging Africa: How 17 Countries Are Leading the Way – Steven Radelet.  Steven Radelet was one of the many incredible speakers at this year’s ONE Power Summit.  Being an economist, he gives an educated analysis of the progress being made in many African countries and provides a model that can be followed for the entire developing world to follow for progress. His book was a favorite of one of my fellow ONE CDLs so I am excited to dive in.

As the kids and I were working we talked lots about my upcoming trip and what I may see.  I believe what they visualize may have put into perspective really how little we need; being with one another, appreciating our surroundings, and the health that we are blessed with.  After we completed all of our spaces, we set down together, looked around—and smiled! 
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21 Jun 2011
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To all of the ONE dads–buckets of gratitude!

I will not deny that being female and being a mom gives me super powers.  I did deliver a 10 pound baby boy at home!  But with all that we do as moms, there still remains a space to fill by all of the dads.  Just imagine the possibilities if the ONE moms worked beside the ONE dads raising ONE families!  I just happen to be surrounded by many ONE dads whose compassion resonates in their voices to make poverty history.  Moms are expected to take action when we see children dying from preventable diseases.  We sometimes fail to see that dads are often just as moved to join the conversation.

Truth be told—I would not be a ONE mom if it were not for my husband.   He and I grew up together, so he has always known my thoughts of the world.  Whenever he read a news piece of interest he would always share it with me.  This is how I learned about Live Aid, DATA, Drop the Debt, and ONE.  It was September 2005 in Chicago, my birthday and first U2 concert when he pulled me from my crowded place in the merchandise line to meet this ONE volunteer.  He said, “This is that organization you were reading about.  You need to sign up.”  Well I listened, became a member, and have wore the same ONE band ever since.  So yes, from this experience a ONE mom was born, but also an incredible ONE dad. 

Since becoming a ONE Congressional District Leader I have met the most incredible dads out there meeting with their Members of Congress, writing letters, and making phone calls.  As a fellow ONE CDL and ONE dad from Oregon, Craig Rottman spoke so eloquently, “Raising children—parenthood—is one of the most under-appreciated yet important roles a person can accept in life.  I like to think that what we do as volunteers for ONE embody things we all would want our children to see and to learn:  that doing good work is its own reward and that helping others who need it is a part of living a compassionate life.”

To my husband for supporting me every step of the way on this journey and encouraging me to magnify my voice while adding his to the conversation and to every ONE dad I have met along the way I give buckets of gratitude.  The world is lucky to have all of you!  By the way, was it not a ONE dad who started this entire movement?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B6SSjAny7_M&feature=youtube_gdata_player

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13 Jun 2011
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The World is Busy

The World is Busy
My last three weeks have been filled with spring concerts, talent shows, socials, graduations, award ceremonies, celebrations, grocery shopping, bill paying, house cleaning (minimally), laundry, and ONE events.  I compare the end of the school year to running a marathon, without the fitness benefits.  I find though, that everyone I talk to (parents or not) is busy.  I like to say “the world is busy” when I find myself complaining about the demanding schedule of life.  This comment reminds me to remain conscious of my life as it is here where I have a car, roads, and grocery stores.  Did you know that the women of Kenya produce 80% of the food and represent 70% of all the agriculture workers?  They do this while caring for their families and communities at large.  This puts my life in perspective and makes preparing dinner seem minuscule.  I am in awe of the resilience of African women.
The strength and courage I have always imagined these women to have will be realized when I witness their experience next month.  On my trip to Kenya with the ONE Moms Advisory Council we will be meeting with women to hear their stories of hope and optimism as well as the challenges they face in their day to day lives.  We will have seven days to meet a variety of women from different areas of the country. I will get to find our connections and hopefully help others feel connected as well.  I want to honor them with this blog and my words.  This trip has presented itself at a transitional time in my life.  There is a reason it is happening now in this moment.  I do not wish to ponder why and create expectations.  My plan is to slow down, find my center, and be present in each and every moment.
 
Photo Courtesy of Morgana Wingard, ONE Campaign
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05 Jun 2011
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What is there to be afraid of?

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.  Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.”—Marianne Williamson

            I have had fears in my life for sure; mice, spiders, swimming in the ocean, and writing for this blog.  So the question remains how to face them.  Living deep in the Indiana woods there was no escaping mice and spiders.  Reluctantly, I learned how to coexist.  Now, living in coastal North Carolina I am learning to be in the ocean without my knees knocking.  Just yesterday I caught my first wave on a surf board.  So here I sit today ready to conquer this blog post!

            Honestly, it is not the blog I am afraid of or how people will respond to it.  It is that feeling of something greater than me is happening through my words.  Leaving Indiana and my position as a telephone triage nurse left me with space to rediscover my passions.  For me, being home with kids has been the most rewarding experience of my life, but at times has left me feeling personally lost and inadequate.  Deep down, though, I feel I am bound to do great things outside of being a mom.  I believe we are ALL here to do great things with our time on the earth.  We just have to figure out where and turn ourselves in that direction.  I had a conversation with my husband last summer about my plans after the kids went back to school.  I mentioned that I had no desire to return to nursing and that I wanted to actively research what opportunities existed with the organizations and companies I had been supporting through the years.  On my list was The Body Shop, Ten Thousand Villages, Product(Red), Oxfam, The Full Belly Project, and ONE.  I was not exactly sure what I was looking for, but knew this is what I needed to do.  For those who believe in the “law of attraction” they will understand then how it came to be that just two weeks later there was a ONE documentary screening right here in Wilmington!  Of course I was there and later that evening received an email asking if I would be interested in volunteering as a ONE Congressional District Leader. 

For many reasons saying “yes” was frightening, then I went to the quote by Marianne Williamson and continued reading…”We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous.  Actually, who are you not be.  You are a child of God.  Your playing small does not serve the world.  We were born to manifest the glory of God that is within us.  It’s not just in some of us, it’s in everyone.  As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.  As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others”.  So here I am visiting Washington D.C., meeting Members of Congress, volunteering at U2 concerts, and traveling to Kenya.  This is where I am meant to be and this is only the beginning of where I am going.  What is there to be afraid of?

           
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31 May 2011
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Coming Alive

     I have always felt stories were important to share and listen to.  Our personal stories help us know that we are not alone on our journey.  My talent just happens to be sparking conversations with pretty much anyone.  Sending me into the grocery for a gallon of milk could lead to a long wait in the car for my family.  I always return, though, with an incredible personal story!   Sharing stories face-to-face feels safe to me; I have control of the tone and emotion.  Putting my story in writing for the world to see leaves me with a small pit in my stomach.
     This last week I took that leap and posted my story on the ONE blog. Here is a link:  http://one.org/blog/2011/05/19/i-have-already-changed-the-world/  The feedback and responses I am receiving are overwhelming.  I am humbled to think that my words are inspiring.  First I am not a writer that can just spill our words of prose.  One small email can sometimes take me twenty minutes to sound the way I want it to.  More importantly, suggesting that the choices I make for my life “should” be practiced by others is not my desire.
     I have always led a simple life in a way that felt right to me.  “The path less traveled” sums up my story.  Those closest to me know that I have never been mainstream and though I love to talk, being in a social scene has never been a comfortable place for me.  Now I am hosting ONE events, meeting with Members of Congress on behalf of the world’s poorest, and traveling to Kenya in July!  Deep inside I knew this was coming.   This is part of my purpose on this Earth.  All along I have been present with what has been right in front of me and appreciated every moment.  I now have an opportunity to be a voice on a much larger scale for those living in extreme poverty.  If writing my experience inspires others to join the conversation then it is time for me to dive in completely.
     I intend to take this responsibility and honor it.  For the first time in my life I will be recording my stories as well as the stories I am touched by every day.  This experience will be new and I welcome you to share the journey with me.  A friend keeps this quote on her email signature; “Don’t ask what the world needs.  Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it.  Because what the world needs are people who have come alive.”—Howard Thurman.  I invite you to “come alive” with me together as ONE.
Peace,
Rachel
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